Entries from July 2007

July 31, 2007

Finding good stories in strange places

When I went down to ride my exercise bicycle last night, I saw a magazine on the floor open to an article titled Coaching the Grief-Stricken. Since I’m a professional coach, I thought, Hmm, sounds interesting. When I leaned over to pick it up, I found it was in my son’s Sports [...]

July 30, 2007

Using Positive Psychology to Help Disabled Veterans

I’ve been involved in a discussion on Positive Psychology News Daily in response to the challenge “How can we use Positive Psychology to improve the lives of the veterans living with never-before-seen levels of debilitation?” (Jordan Silberman, Let’s put our heads together and subsequent comments.)
It’s an interesting question to ponder. It makes [...]

July 22, 2007

A high-quality connection

In Energize Your Workplace, Jane Dutton writes about the importance of high-quality connections at work — where connections are the social exchanges that make up the day, from passing in the hall to greeting on the telephone to responding in a meeting. Every exchange can be energizing … or corrosive to the [...]

July 18, 2007

Unusual gifts

Staying out here with my mother has made me sharply aware of two great gifts she has given to her children in the last 10 years:

She gave up her driver’s license voluntarily. It was relatively easy for her because she lives in a city with great public transportation and the cost of housing [...]

July 13, 2007

‘Meaning’ through ‘Being’

Martin Seligman describes Meaning as the third pathway to happiness, where meaning comes from pursuing goals and purpose beyond oneself. He also claims that — unlike the pleasant life — the meaningful life has no set range, and thus is not limited by an individual’s inherent ability to feel good, an ability that varies [...]

July 9, 2007

Being instead of doing

It’s been a whole week since I last posted, and a very full week.  I traveled out to Seattle to be with my mother for her cancer surgery.  I didn’t know what to expect, but she has bounced back like a true healer.  She sometimes talks about being in the 80’s is if it is [...]

July 2, 2007

Many ripples from a short life

Yesterday I attended the memorial service for Thomas, a young man who had coped with Friedrich’s ataxia, a progress neurological disorder that gave him a heart attack and stroke at the age of 22. Many people spoke about what made him extraordinary — his sardonic sense of humor, his artistic talents and staunch [...]

July 1, 2007

Who is my audience?

A friend asked me, “Who is the intended audience for your blog?”
Always a good question for any form of communication.
I picture myself holding this gift of things I learned during the MAPP program, a gift that I can’t just keep to myself.  I can give it away in little exchanges with people I encounter.  I [...]